Planning your wedding? Here’s something you might not know: in Massachusetts, your best friend, a sibling, or even your dad can legally officiate your big day. It only takes a simple application and a small fee to make it official.
Here’s how it works step by step.
Why Choose a Loved One?
A friend or family member brings something extra to your ceremony: personality, warmth, and memories that last a lifetime. Instead of a stranger, you’ll be married by someone who truly knows you.
Step 1: Apply for a One-Day Marriage Designation
Massachusetts allows a loved one to become a “one-day officiant”.
They’ll need to apply through the Secretary of the Commonwealth’s office. The application asks for:
- The officiant’s personal details.
- The couple’s names.
- The date and location of the wedding.
You can apply online [link at the end of the article] or by mail.
Step 2: Pay the Fee
- Online applications cost $20 plus $3.50 expedited fee.
- Mail applications cost $25, and take longer to process.
Step 3: Submit a Letter of Recommendation
The state requires a short letter of recommendation for your officiant. This just needs to come from someone other than the couple or the officiant.
Step 4: Receive the Certificate
Once approved, your loved one will receive a Certificate of Solemnization. This is proof that they can legally perform the wedding.
Step 5: Perform the Ceremony & File the License
On the wedding day:
- Your officiant leads the ceremony.
- The marriage license is signed by the couple and the officiant.
- The officiant must return the signed license to the city or town clerk where it was issued.
This is the step that makes your marriage legal.
Helpful Tips
- Apply early (up to 6 months in advance, no later than 1 week before).
- Rehearse with your officiant so they’re confident on the big day.
- Keep copies of all paperwork for peace of mind.
Final Thoughts
Finally, as a photographer, I have found that having your best friend, sibling, or even your dad officiate your wedding is like the icing on the cake. It adds a personal touch that makes the day not only memorable but truly one-of-a-kind—an experience no other detail can replace.
Link to Apply online: https://www.sec.state.ma.us/OneDayWeb/External/Welcome.aspx
